I have been feelin’ shitty these days. I have so much in my mind and less in my pocket, and then I realize that I could not possibly the only one who’s in the same state as I am. Wow, what a relief!
A question formulated in my mind. What could make you say you feel shitty at the moment? It could either be events, situation, instances, or person. I asked my friends and these are what they have shared.
No More Mr. Nice Guy: Imagine this, when you finally have the guts of telling someone how you really feel for her and you’re wishing that she feels the same way for you and things will go as you have planned. Then the moment comes that she has an answer to your revelation and she said “let’s stay as friends”. What the f**k?!
Antonette: l went to the club, l saw this cute guy (CHRIS) looking to all the people who’s dancing. l came to him and ask him lf we can dance bec. he looks bored just starring on us on the floor. he said he dont wanna dance just chillin around. he ask my number and l ask his number too. the next day we talk on the cell and l found out he’s work is just 10 mins away from my work. l went to his work place talking and talking, he looks nice to me and days goes by he ask me to go out just hang out with him and we did. we always talk on the phone all kind of staff. and one day l woke up and realise that l’m falling for him. l ask him what’s up with me and him, and he told me that ” I JUST NEED A FRIEND, L CANT GO TO A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW BEC. IM TO BUZY WITH MY TWO JOB, I DONT HAVE TIME” when he said that to me l feel like l wanna vanish in front of him and stop talking to him. back on my mine ” shit you asshole, l dont need a friend l have a lots of friend already”. but still he keeps on txting me and l keep on answering his txt. ( what a stupid l am ).
Jhed: I had the most shitty moment anyone could have had but one of still makes laugh like hell. It was during my way to work here at RS . One day i was going up in the elevator when another person whom i havent met until then started talking to me.She asked ‘How are you?” and I answered “Fine” surprised at it. She then asked me “What else are you up to” and i replied “nothing”. Finally she turned to me and said “Do You Mind I Am On The Phone”!!.It was then that i realized she was talking on her Mobile.
Kinky Girl: ” we were heading for some place quiet, actually were being ready for something kinky… when, he’s cellphone beeps! oh my gosh, tinxt sya ng GF nya! it turned out that his mom texted her GF, asking his where about… ang alam ng GF, his at his room already sleeping… the big shock of our day! badtrip, sobrang horny na namin at wala na kaming pakialam sa mga karelasyon namin! ayun nag away na lang kami instead!” do u want to hear the rest of the story???
KonyongTrasher: i feel shitty when i said to a girl that we will go out and treat her..we can go shopping and everything. Then when we were together i suggested that we ate in a ‘lil bit? expensive restaurant. Then when about to order or worse..after ordering or eating..i realized that i dont have enough money..and we even invited her friends o join us.. the girl end up paying the bills and saying to my face..”u have the guts to invite us to eat at this (restaurant) and you dnt have any money”.
Note: My friend’s comments are unedited.
I just feel shitty cause i’m in a new town, my girl is 1000 miles away, and I am not good at making new friends. Oh, and i’m broke.
I feel shitty because I have been single for six years. I feel shitty because I realized I am not that attractive no matter how many haircuts, facials, workouts, whatever it is I do. I realized that whenever a man says he’s into me he never really has been. I feel shitty because I want to give my love and be loved but no one wants me and I do not know why.
I feel shitty because everyone suddenly has start to annoy me they dont deserve that.
I hear you there. I’ve only had one gf because i was fedup of being single and saw nothing happening for me in the future. Didn’t love her and she cheated on me. Now single for a year again. Everytime i find a possible mate some outrageous thing happens and i dont see them again. I think its my destiny to be alone forever. I hate it. All my friends have someone and it seems that it bothers them that i cant find anyone. Alot of girls think i’m good looking but wtf does that do for me. 😦 I’m still not goin to have anyone and i feel like shit.
I feel shitty because it is my damn birthday and i do everything for everyone and don’t get shit in return!
I feel shitty because life is all about giving and I NEVER get anything in return. People are assholes, and they take so much and give nothing in return. To top it off, I’m alone and thats just SHITTY.
Feeling shitty is because you want to feel that way. Im feeling shitty right now but I don’t want to feel this way. I will just try and not feel shitty, I know I’ll get over it. But at least if your feeling shitty now and Im probably not now at this point your reading this; so here we are at a place in time where I once felt shitty and now I don’t but you do… You’ll get over it too!
Here is a hug and a smack!
Give love to yourself, ok?
Thank you.
I feel shitty because she hasn’t responded to any of my texts all week.
I feel shitty because he never wants to talk to me anymore.
Alone and lonely are completely different things.
very true
i feel shitty because life comes too easy for my best friend but doesn’t for me. i feel shitty because Im lonely. I feel shitty because I suck at everything I try to do. I feel shitty because I want someone to love me and no ones stepping up. I feel shitty because this is the only place i have to let this out.
i fell slightly less shitty now. Danke Schon.
I feel shitty because my husband doesn’t love me no matter how hard I try.
I feel shitty because I have loved the same guy for 9 years and he loves me but he lost his job 2 years ago and one month of my paying the bills has turned into two years and now he all of a sudden has developed “anxiety” and can’t work… I don’t believe he is lying, but I am so unhappy about it, sometimes I don’t even care how he feels. I feel loyal and completley stupid and rediculous all at the same time. I want to cry, and I do, but no amount of talking to him makes it change. he says he hears me, when I tell him, he says it will change. but then… nothing. again and again. when do you stop loving someone like this?
I feel shitty because I’ve been cooking hamburgers, steak, bread, fried Zucchini, cake, and salad for 40 people for 5 hours, and someone else is in the fcuking SHOWER!!! My roomate, who I hate.
I feel shitty because there is nobody who would see real me. I feel like I always have to be one of the best. People expect that from me and it sucks. I’m not number 1 for anyone. I have very good friends, but is that all I want? I want to go somewhere and start all over. It doesn’t pay off to be a very nice person. I just wanna go somewhere and shout, drop and wake up in a fairytale. But this is life and I have to face it all over again. Nobody helps me all the time like the other. Possibly because I have very different goals and people don’t understand what I want.
I love that theres somewhere we can all feel shitty together, theres something less shitty about being able to tell someone else how shitty you feel, especially whenthey feel shitty too. I guess misery tryuly does indulge company… 😉
so he’s looking for a job, it’s been a month… we’ll see what happens or I hope I’ll see, I really hope I see something.. REALLY
i feel shitty because my brother had an accident and i feel heaps sorry for him, and i also feel shitty because im all alone. Im 15 and i have never had a girlfriend, i have friends but they are all shut in, i havnt seen any of them all holidays. Id just like a compliment here or there…………………..thats all….
i feel shitty because im not trusted..i dunno why but a lot events seemed to frame me up..ive tried my best to xplain but though it seemed worked i know its just on the surface..i dunno how much longer this gonna take..i feel shitty xplaining things i didnt do and finally theres somewhere i can pour my thoughts in
EYE feel shitty because this time, it’s completely evident that I am the one who fucked things up. The one person I care about just called me a dumb bitch.
Life is just slightly terrible, at the moment.
I feel shitty because my “friends” just ditched me for some party for the second time this week.
I feel shitty because I have depression and it’s ruining my life! I work and study full time but I’m always dead tired and falling asleep, and I’m afraid I might fail classes because I never wake up in time for anything. I wake up feeling like a failure, and it gets worse throughout the day. I also stopped talking to pretty much everybody, so internet is my only therapy.
I feel shitty cause I can’t find another job that will support me anymore. I got sick this week because I was at my shitty-paying job with my shitty co-workers who passed the bug to me (I work in a small kitchen). The weather has been absolutely dreary for the last week. I nearly impaled myself on my surf board fin, instead, stabbing myself in the arm, creating a deep puncture wound. The only relief I have is sneaking off in the dark to go toke with a buddy who shares his weed because he knows I’m poor.
this may seem trivial but i feel shitty because the triner at the gym i go to has shitty attitude which he give me all the fucking time. asshole. twerp. fucking pig. whats up his ass i have no idea.
I feel like crap, because when I feel vulnerable, the one I want to talk to, well, not there for me.
I feel so depressed. School and my mom’s expectations are changing my personality, which affects my friendships. I am more quiet now, and I intentionally ignore my friends in class, so as to focus on lectures. At my apartment, I physically punish myself to remind myself of the duties and the responsibilities to which I am held accountable. My mom tells me that I am in control of my own future, but I feel like everything has already been predestined. If life is all about balancing and prioritizing what’s most important to you. Right now, my mother’s happiness is my number one priority, even if it means sabotaging my chances with Love and building strong intimate relationships with someone I like at school. Everyone needs love. I am so torn between logic and feelings. I hope everything turns out fine. I wish to leave my comment and never come back to this site. Yes, I wish I will never have to google “I feel shitty” ever again. For all who feels the same, for all who are in stressful circumstances, please remember to laugh once in a while. Ask yourself this question: if I had all the money in the world, and I went on the biggest shopping spree, buying everything I want and knowing that I no longer need to worry about bills or rent or being hungry – what would I be doing afterwards? what would I do with all that time? this question will help you understand yourself a little bit more.
Much love from Boston, MA USA
~JN
i feel shitty because my guy has been distant and avoiding me